Mini Gardening (with Robots)

I am keen to get J into gardening at a young age, though fear this may be an uphill battle to begin with. Regular readers will know he is not your ‘typical’ three year old due to having CHARGE Syndrome. His challenges to understand the world around him are pretty big. Without hearing to help him learn he is very much a visual kinda boy and he is behind his peers in his development. J can’t stand without having some kind of support for him to hold on to and his balance (due to partially formed balance organs) is another big issue. Sitting unaided for any length of time is also difficult for him, hence I sat behind him to give him the support and reassurance he needed. He is a remarkable boy overcoming many obstacles on a daily basis. Things many of us take for granted. I know I will be forever in awe of his achievements and always proud.

MoneySupermarket.com sent J this fab gardening kit and this post is an entry for BritMums’ #KidsGrowWild Challenge. The two little wooden robots and flower all hitched a lift from our lounge to entice J into the gardening spirit!
KGW 1  CollageAs you can see the hitching robots came in useful to begin with. J soon showed interest in the soil and spent some time just having some fun exploring the soil.

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J really enjoyed doing this.

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Next we moved onto the seed packet. Again he spent a fair amount of time exploring the packet, turning it over and over in his hands.

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Sowing seeds..

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Now time to put the label in ‘J’s Garden’. He is fascinated by things like this and again spent ages turning it over in his hands. Finally watering the seeds.
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And the trough has been put up on the fence away from the hens who given half a chance would eat the lot in seconds!!
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Silent Sunday 16th June 2013

Robin egg & Daisy

Silent Sunday

Project 365, Week 24

J had a heart check up this week and I am happy to say that he is still doing well. I wasn’t expecting any different news in regards to this but still I find myself nervous when those appointments come around.

Anyway, a handful of photo’s to share. J is currently full of snot which seemed to come out of nowhere on Wednesday afternoon. He is still in high spirits considering but things get a bit more tricky when bugs come into the house, particularly with his overnight feeds as he will tend to get quite sick. Anyhoo!

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Him Outdoors had a particularly large delivery on Tuesday, big enough to put J in. So we did. He seemed to rather enjoy himself in there! I am guessing it gave him some happy sensory time being immersed in all those what do you call them bits! He was happy in there for a while and then started trying to taste those bits at which point I took him out!

Thinking time

Continuing the sensory theme there are things we do daily which J enjoys. We have a good daily sensory diet going on which is important for his equilibrium. These lights were a christmas present for J from my family and works so well in his playroom where we purposefully kept the walls a neutral cream so that things like this can be enjoyed to maximum effect.

disco lights

Two out of three of the hens are now laying. This was the haul by Thursday. There were an additional two but I might have snaffled those…and delicious they were too!

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The Aftermath!

So last week some of you will remember there was going to be a mass cull of conifers on the banks. I am pleased to say it’s been done but the aftermath is still there *cough cough* I am hoping Him Outdoors with deal with that soon!!

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You may be wondering why there is still a leylandii hedge still there? Well, for now we have to do things bit by bit since time is never in abundance in our house and it does give a degree of privacy since there is a public foot path that runs along the back. It’s never a huge issue as it’s mainly dog walkers going up into the fields but there’s still a bit of that London mistrust lingering in my bones after living up there for 17 years. We have now just passed our first year living down here!

Aftermath part 2

There are grand plans for this area over the next few weeks! And we did get rid of part of the hedge here. Look how wide it is. I was a bit concerned that there might be nests in there but we did check before cutting and it’s clear. As my mum pointed out there are so many trees surrounding us with much better nesting spots in.

The Hedge

 We have found concrete posts and wire running through! Can’t wait to get rid of it all eventually. I am thinking probably over the Autumn.

So  onto the banks! I found this lovely white Dicentra poking through some other plants which is a pleasant surprise. I had this in my other garden as it’s a favourite and I have a feeling this might have hitched a lift with something else that I had brought with me and replanted (yes I did dig up my favourite plants before moving!

Dicentra Alba

And this lovely Geum, another favourite. The flowers are so bright and happy and the foliage forms like a clump and is low in the ground whereas the flowers have long stems that shoot up towards the sky. A good ground cover plant.

Geum

 So onto the banks we have the left side, now devoid of conifers aside from at the very top where it again provides a degree of privacy. Again, in time these will be replaced by something else (still thinking on about that one!).

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 And the right. I think the generally the planting on this side is much better thought out than the left.all we need now are for the rest of the flowers to come into bloom and I also have some to put in that have been grown from seed this year.

The Right

In other news , we found a toad on the top level the other night!

Toadie

 What’s through the gate?

the gate

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E Slim Club

Did you know that this week is Carers Week? I am officially J’s Carer as well as his mum, given that his needs are above and beyond your ‘average’ child. I don’t often get a break and I think that since he arrived in our lives all of my focus has been on him (naturally) and his wellbeing. Going through his surgeries and with all of our regular weekly appointments /therapies average out at six a week with additional hospital appointments thrown in for good measure here and there. It’s fair to say that I don’t really have time for me in all of this and it’s also fair to say that my health and body  has also suffered to a degree where I need to bring some attention back to me before things get too out of hand. My father has type 2 Diabetes and I know I am at a high risk of going the same way. I have a good two stone to lose.

I have always had a bit of a battle with my weight though looking back on photographs of me in my 20′s you would never have known it. In some ways I can’t believe I was ever that slim because I have always felt a bit fat! It’s fair to say that I am an emotional eater and this is where I can really struggle. Feeling down, then I reach for the chocoalte, my sweet tooth over the years has been my undoing in many ways!

 I gave up smoking just over ten years ago now due to a cancer scare resulting in a partial thyroidectomy. Luckily the growth turned out to be benign but it shook me up sufficiently to kick the habit and I have never looked back. So why when it comes to my weight can I not seem to shake it off permanently?

I heard about eslimclub.com through twitter the other day. I checked out their website and it looks a bit different to your usual weight loss clubs. They take a ‘coach approach’.  I am really curious if this will infact make me change my habits and sort myself out. The program is set in six parts, each with a video. You watch one a week and you will need quiet time to do this. Now having the hens, I am getting up earlier than before and this is giving me about an hour of quiet time each morning (yay!).

So this morning I have watched the first video and I like the approach already. Part 1 is called ‘Willpower’. That old chestnut. The video makes you really think outside the box though! The cost of eslimclub.com is only £29 for 90 days. No hidden extras. There is a community chat board and weekly weigh ins. I will report back in three weeks time to let you know how I have got on.

Disclosure: I have been given free access to eslimclub.com for 90 days for the purpose of really shifting my excess baggage and reviews. All opinions are honest and my own. 

Introducing the Girls

I have dreamed of keeping chickens for a good couple of years now. In my last home it just wasn’t possible as the garden was too small. After a year of badgering Him Outdoors, he finally relented and said ok a couple of months back.  So then started my research in earnest on all things chickens. Firstly the coop. There are just so many options out there, it’s a bit of a minefield really and prices do vary wildly. I did find out that coops with the roof felting on (like you get on sheds) is a no no really as it is perfect for red mites. They are horrible little things that feed off the chickens at night when it’s dark. Pretty vampirey huh!  They can be prevented provided you maintain good habits with looking after your coop (so I have read anyway); and I am diligently following all advice in the hope it works beautifully in the long run.

I went to a few pet shops and looked at coops. I then found Chicken Coops Direct and fell in love with the Sussex House with the run. I liked the fact there is a covered area for shelter and shade and it looks pretty easy to clean out. Exploring the website further you can sign up for the chicken keeping guide with videos. Even though I had already read a huge amount, I thought why not and really enjoyed receiving the daily emails for a week. Watching the video guides was even more helpful and I would say if you are thinking of keeping chickens then it really is worth doing. It’s free and there’s no obligation either.

I have opted to keep the chickens on the top level of our garden for a couple of reasons. Their security being the main one and also the bottom of our garden is prone to flooding when it rains heavily thereby deeming it unsuitable. We had the issue of everything being paving slabbed, so a little jack hammer thingummy was duly hired and Him Outdoors got to work breaking up the concrete….

only to find more paving slabs underneath…why? Why would you do that???

So a bit of a rethink was in order. We decided not to dig down further for fear of what we might find and also it means that foxes won’t be able to dig down deep enough to gain access. So we bought lots of top soil and then turfed the area for the coop to go on. I know the turf won’t last very long as chickens like to scratch but it gives them  good scratching ground.

Coop Prep Final

Finished coop

Him Outdoors found the coop and run easy to assemble with good instructions and I am so pleased with it!

I bought everything in advance of the arrival and again after much spoddy research decided on Layers Mash with Bokashi added in from Wiggly Wigglers (whom I bought a wormery from years ago and it’s still going strong!) because it claims to reduce the poo smell significantly and has received glowing reviews! I also picked up the Oyster Shells from there too (chickens need a bit of extra calcium for their egg shells). I then  chose to buy the bedding from Flyte So Fancy opting for the Hemp Bedding as this again has excellent reviews and was also recommended by experienced keepers as being a good option. And finally I bought a bag of bark from them too for the run.

The final thing to do was to choose the girls! A couple of friends had told me about Moon Ridge Farm a while back. Only a few short miles outside of Exeter and with the added bonus of it being north of the city (we live north, did you guess?) we went over for a good look around about a month before buying. If you get the chance go and have a wander. It’s so lovely there with many different chicken breeds, water fowl. There are pigmy goats to see and an enclosure you can walk into with wallabys and deer! Yes really. The surrounding countryside views are simply stunning.

So, introducing the girls… firstly we have Cybil (Fawlty), named by Him Outdoors as she seems to be the boss! Cybil is a Lohman Brown.

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Cybil

Next we have Bette. She has a beautiful green shimmery sheen to her coat. She is a Bovans Nera.

Bette the Bovans Nera!

And finally here is Myrtle. She is an Amber Link and she has been the first to start laying last Sunday!

Myrtle

I chose Cybil & Myrtle because their are supposed to be the friendliest of breeds for keeping around children and Bette because (so say Moon Ridge Farm) her breed is the first to make friends in the flock.

Bette chilling

We are now on week three of keeping chickens, so early days. I let them out during the day to roam around. My veg plants have taken a bit of battering so I have moved them down the bottom of the garden. I am now considering extending the run further (for days when we may be out all day and they can’t roam, though they have 30sqft in their house & run already, I have read in this article in the Guardian you should allow 4sqft per chook). and we are also considering fencing off part of the garden for their sole use, thereby leaving the rest of it poop free for us. I do clean up their mess at the end of each day I hasten to add! If we do fence off an area we will have to dig up more concrete and make it properly fit for purpose for them.

Bottoms

I love their fluffy bums!

Disclosure: After a few emails back and forth with Chicken Coop Direct (and me telling them about this blog) they kindly agreed to give me a small discount on my coop. I am very happy with everything I have bought and if you’re thinking of keeping some chickens,  I recommend everything I have bought!

Milk & More Review

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The milkman, together with his trusty electric float, has long been a staple part of the community, serving generations of Britons fresh daily milk. However, it’s not a rare sight to see small traditions and local businesses taken over by the globalization of internet super-giants. We all remember the cry when high street brands like Woolworths and Blockbuster began to close their doors. But what does this mean for the simple job of the milkman and our daily deliveries? Could we soon expect to see our favourite milkman forced into retirement and replaced by cold robots?

 Well fear not, your local delivery man is here to stay!  Thanks to Milk & More, we now see the perfect combination of British traditions with modern day technology as they take the whole process of milk delivery 100% online. But don’t worry, you’ll still get the same friendly face bringing your milk and groceries to your door. Instead, everything else from payments to orders and even ‘going away’ notes will be carried out with a few clicks over the internet.

They reach a staggering 1.4 million homes and are still expanding. It’s easier to sign up and with their simple post-code checker you can see if they’re in your area yet. If not, you can sign up for an email alert that tells you when they will start delivering to your area. If you’re on their route, once signed up, you’ll immediately learn who will be delivering your orders each day and can soon become familiar with the face as you will have the same driver for every delivery. No more anonymous white van man coming to your door!

 As the name suggests, it’s not just milk on offer either. They have hundreds of products including the heavy, bulky items like potatoes or bottled drinks and they even cater to the furry family members with a range of cat and dog food available too. inconvenience

 All their prices are similar to the ones you’d find on the high street but the best part is, unlike the big supermarket online orders, delivery is free and you don’t need to wait days in order to get a suitable slot. You can order anything up until 9pm the evening before for a delivery bright and early the next morning. This is perfect for busy households who don’t realise there’re out of milk or sugar until you finally catch a break and go to make an evening tea. No more searching for miles for the nearest 24 hour shop, just a few clicks and it’s here by the morning.

 Milk & More is part of the Dairy Crest group which are the same guys that are behind Clover, Cathedral City Cheddar and Frijj. They’re a name you can trust and have recently given their services a bit of a boost earning them two Online Retail Awards in the process. For busy families who get through milk like there’s no tomorrow, or for those who just need a bit of help with getting the bulky items back with your arms in one piece, Milk & More is the perfect solution.

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Silent Sunday 9th June 2013

Silent Sunday

 Silent Sunday

Project 365 Week 23!

This week has flown by largely basking in the sunshine where possible with very few photographs taken. On Sunday I spent a fair amount of time digging compost in to the newly widened flowerbed. The girls were on hand to help..

Sunday

 Thursday found us in the back garden again with J studying the balls, as you do!

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 It was such a lovely evening we had dinner outside, which did include a delicious bottle of Prosecco that was given to us last month and yes it really did last in our fridge unopened for over two weeks! The dinner was another Nigel Slater classic that is a firm supper favourite.

Dinns

On Friday, Cybil decided to infiltrate the kitchen…

Friday

 Today is exactly one year since we relocated to Exeter from London. It really has flown and we love living down here. We went to Dartmoor Zoo today with Exeter Heart Families & Heartline and this photo of Jesse sums up the day. A happy boy for a happy day.

Jesse!

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In the Garden..

..this week things are changing so quickly. In the middle section there are two (what I describe as) banks (rather than flower beds). It’s quite a slope and there are many conifers that to me are complete blots on my landscape! I really don’t like them at all. I have never been a fan. So tomorrow a friend with a chainsaw is coming over to do some major culling. Yippee!

So first of all..

Through the garden gate!

Through the garden gate, see it’s conifer and leylandii central down there!

Look to the left

Look to the left

Now over to the right!

Now over to the right!

There are some really nice plants hidden in these banks. Lots of different types of Geraniums which are a favourite of mine, a mix of ferns, crocosmias, azaeleas,  heather, a pear tree and behind that a plum tree. In time we want to create a curving path down because the steps are really steep and as J cannot yet walk and also has balance problems; we think as he gets older (and we get older!) an easier pathway is a must.

In bloom on the banks

Azalea with rogue tree sapling!!

Azalea with rogue tree sapling

foxgloves

I am again linking up with Annie over at Mammasaurus as I enjoyed having a good nose at the other gardens being shared.

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